So here is a situation for you:
You been with your significant other between lets say: 6-10 years. You met in high school, did the whole school, work, and keep your relationship awesome bit. OK now lets say that he or she cheated. Now here's my beef: Where is the line between 'comfortable' in a relationship and really deeply in "love"?
I have skeletons in my closet, some that both my ex knew and never knew and I can see how being on the inside, a person can get lost and "try to make it work" but I believe that's when a persons judgement is more clouded and does not see what I see.
I see a couple whose comfortable, not bringing the best out of each other anymore, not communicating as they used too, putting each other off instead of how it once was. Its despicable how far people would go to make a relationship work. A relationship should bring the best out of both people, and should be evolving as time passes. Like everything in life nothing stands in idle motion, everything is constantly running, jumping, striving, surviving, and most importantly changing and adapting. If deep down your reading this and you feel a chord was struck, make a goddamn change your life.
I write this as I seen a friend couple of mine get engaged and as I heard how *Lisa's long time boyfriend cheated and she took him back. I am not writing this in jealousy or envy, very much quite the opposite and self-reflection on my own past, and yes I do agree that you never really know what happens between two people no matter how close you are to them. However a picture is worth a thousands words and half of the time you can pretty much sense what is going on.
Mina
Don't Settle
*Name has been changed
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